Carers must provide a level of care, including physical contact, which is designed to demonstrate warmth, friendliness and positive regard for children.
Physical contact should be given in a manner which is safe, protective and avoids the arousal of sexual expectations, feelings or in any way which reinforces sexual stereotypes.Whilst carers staff are actively encouraged to play with children, it is not acceptable to play fight or participate in overtly physical games or tests of strength with the children.
Children must be supported and encouraged to undertake bathing, showers and other intimate care of themselves without relying on carers staff.
Such arrangements must emphasise that children's dignity and their right to be consulted and involved will be protected and promoted; and, where necessary, carers staff will be provided with specialist training and support.Unless otherwise agreed, children will be given intimate care by adults of either gender.
Each child over 3 will have their own bedroom or, where this is not possible, the sharing of the bedroom will have been agreed by the placing authority and the foster carers' fostering social worker must have conducted a risk assessment and any arrangements must be outlined in the child's Placement Plan.
Children should be encouraged to personalise their bedrooms, with posters, pictures and personal items of their choice.
Children of an appropriate age and level of understanding should be encouraged and supported to purchase furniture, equipment or decorations. For older children this should be part of a plan to prepare the child for independence.
Children's rooms should be kept in good structural repair and be clean and tidy. The furniture should conform to standards of flame retardant materials as advised by trading standards.
Children's privacy should be respected. Unless there are exceptional circumstances, carers staff should knock the door before entering children's bedrooms; and then only enter with their permission. The exceptional circumstances where carers staff may have to enter a child's bedroom without asking permission include:
Carers must adopt a non-judgemental attitude toward children, particularly as they mature and develop an awareness of their bodies and sexuality.
Carers must adopt the same approach to children who explore or are confused about their sexual identity or gender who have decided to embrace a particular lifestyle so long as it is not abusive or illegal.
Children who are confused about their sexual identity or gender must be afforded equal access to accurate information, education and support to enable them to move forward positively. As necessary this must be addressed in Placement Plans.
The use of online filters can help to ensure that younger children do not accidentally access pornographic or sexual images online. See UK Safer Internet for more information,
Older young people are likely to be curious about sex and relationships and may search for online for pornographic or sexual material. It is important that staff have an open discussion with young people about pornographic images and the impact that viewing these can have on young people and their own developing relationships. The NSPCC have produced comprehensive guidance for parents and carers on how to talk to young people about online porn and healthy relationships.
For more information please see Online porn - Advice on how to talk to your child about the risks of online porn and sexually explicit material (NSPCC).
Children under the age of 13 are deemed to be incapable of giving consent to sexual activity. Therefore, children of this age who engage in sexual activity must be referred under the Hull Safeguarding Children Partnership Guidelines and Procedures (as a Child Protection Referral) as potentially suffering from Significant Harm.
Children's social workers, placement officers and care providers must be alert to such relationships when considering the placement of children under 13. Children of this age who are likely to be at risk from each other (or from older children) should not be placed together.
When considering the placement (or ongoing placement) of children over the age of 13, managers must assess the risk of sexual relationships developing and should ensure strategies are in place to reduce or prevent these risks if they are likely to be exploitative or abusive.
Where children aged 13 - 18 are placed together with no identified risk of exploitative or abusive behaviour, carers must monitor any developing relationships, sensitively but positively discouraging children from engaging under aged sexual relationships.
Carers should be mindful of their duty to consider the overall welfare of children and this may mean recognising that illegal activity is taking place and working to minimise risks and consequences. If there is any suspicion that a child is in abusive or exploitative relationship it must be discussed with the child's social worker who will consider what further action is required under the Hull Safeguarding Children Partnership Guidelines and Procedures.
Any actions taken in this respect will be subject to consultation and must be addressed in Placement Plans.
Should carers suspect children are engaging in sexual relationships, they should:
Access to contraceptives will not be conditional on children giving information about their lifestyles and contraception will never be withdrawn as a punitive measure.
Whilst not encouraging it, it is understood that children may engage in sexual activity; some before they reach the age of consent.
In such circumstances the carers' Fostering Social Worker should consult the social worker to agree what reasonable steps can be taken to minimise risk of pregnancy or infection, including facilitating contact with relevant agencies providing contraceptive advice; such as the Brook Advisory Service.If a child is suspected or known to be pregnant the carers should notify their managers and the child's social worker to decide on the actions that should be taken.
If the child is going missing, see Missing Children and Young People Procedure and Guidance.
If it is suspected that a child is involved in sexual exploitation concerns must be reported by the carers to their supervising social worker and the child's social worker to decide on the actions that should be taken.
Carers must be alert to child sexual exploitation risk factors s and should do all they can to create a supportive environment which encourages children to be open about situations in which they may have become involved.
Where there is any concern a child is involved in sexual exploitation it should be addressed in their Placement Plan together with exit strategies to support them end their involvement in sexual exploitation.
If there is any concern the child is suffering Significant Harm, consideration should be given to refer the child under the Hull Safeguarding Children Partnership Guidelines and Procedures.
Consideration should be given to referring the child to the Child Exploitation Meetings which are held monthly.
If there is any suspicion that a child is involved in sexual exploitation, Ofsted must be notified by the Group Manager (Fostering).
See also: Sexual Health Procedure.
If it is known or suspected that a child has a sexually transmitted infection (including HIV and AIDS), carers must notify their supervising social worker and the child's social worker, who will decide what measures to take.
The possibility of peer abuse will always be taken seriously but we recognise it is equally important not to label or stigmatise normal sexual exploration and experimentation between children.
Behaviour is not a cause for concern unless it is compulsive, coercive, age-inappropriate or between children of significantly different ages, maturity or mental abilities.
If at any time carers suspect children are engaged in abusive sexual relationships as perpetrators and/or victims, they must immediately inform their managers and the child's social worker and make a referral under the Hull Safeguarding Children Partnership Guidelines and Procedures.
Young women should be supported and encouraged to keep their own supply of sanitary protection without having to request it from carers.
There should also be adequate provision for the private disposal of used sanitary protection.
If it is known or suspected that a child is likely to experience enuresis (bed wetting) or encopresis (smearing) it should be discussed openly, with the child if possible, and strategies adopted for managing it; these strategies should be outlined in the child's Placement Plan.
Carers, their supervising social worker and the child's social worker should consider the reasons for enuresis and encopresis there may be a variety of reasons but it is likely that such behaviour is symptomatic of anxiety and worries about previous experiences including abuse and neglect.
It may be appropriate to consult a LAC Health Nurse or other specialist, who may advise on the most appropriate strategy to adopt. In the absence of such advice, the following should be adopted:
The term 'Touch' is used throughout this manual in two different contexts.
'Touch' as a form of physical intervention designed to prevent a child or others from being injured or to protect property from being damaged; and the use of 'Touch' to enable carers to demonstrate affection, acceptance and reassurance.
This section provides guidance relating to the demonstration of affection, acceptance and reassurance.
It is acknowledged that touch raises particular issues for those working with children. Some people have views about applying a "hands off" or "hands on" policy with children result from scandals of child abuse, or fear of violence from children. Carers may be anxious about allegations of inappropriate physical contact with children.
However, touch is acceptable; but carers should consider the following:
The child may have had particular experiences which make it difficult to accept touch from an adult; or the child's experiences may lead to a need for more touch than is acceptable.
It is therefore important for carers to obtain information about the child's background before acting, in any way not just in terms of the use of touch.
If there are particular needs that the child has or if it appears that the child may respond more or less favourably to touch, this must be reflected in the planning process.
Dependent on the age and level of understanding of the child, s/he should be involved in this assessment and planning; and should be encouraged to consent to being touched; or to place conditions on it.
The culture or values of the household should be such that touch is encouraged; as a positive and safe way of communicating affection, warmth, acceptance and reassurance.
Carers and children should be encouraged to use touch, positively and safely.
But it is important for carers and children to know if boundaries exist within the home or for individual children.
If boundaries or expectations exist for individual children they should be set out in their Care Plan and Placement Plan.
If boundaries or expectations exist for the home, they should be clear. For example, if carers are not expected to allow children to sit on their laps, or to carry children, this should be stated in the fostering household's Safe Caring Policy.
In the absence of any plan or expectation, the following should be taking into consideration:
Safe Caring is discussed in detail in the foster carer pre-approval training.Please also see Safe Caring Procedure
It is essential that all carers are aware, that the use of foul and abusive language directed towards children is totally inappropriate and unnecessary. This will only have the effect of demeaning children, have a negative effect on child / carer relationship and lead to an escalation of disruptive and challenging behaviour.
All carers need to be aware that any complaints relating to foul and abusive language will be treated seriously and may lead to disciplinary measures.
Confidence in and good rapport with particular adults is a fundamental element in good care practices. Whilst children are in foster care a variety of problems will arise, at times of stress or crisis every child needs an adult to turn to.
Warmth and understanding are essential, but everyone needs to know and understand when a relationship is inappropriate. The fine line between what is "proper" warmth and understanding and what is regarded as "improper" is likely to vary depending on the needs and experiences of the individual child.
Where it is known that a child has been a victim of sexual abuse and it is likely he or she will behave towards carers in a sexual manner, particular rules will have to be drawn up for carers. This may involve the need to avoid being alone with the child, by always having a third person present.
What is important is that carers need to be putting the children's interests first and always considering what is appropriate in any given situation with a particular child.
Carers must have knowledge and understanding of the child and his or her background, and be able to recognise and respect any emotional 'barriers' the child has 'erected'.
carers should be sufficiently aware of their own feelings, so that they can recognise the dangers of a relationship with a child becoming sexualised and stop to consider what is happening and what they are doing.
Other people's feelings and views, of both adults and children, need to be taken into account. If there is any indication that a relationship could be viewed as inappropriate, the carers should discuss the issues with their supervising social worker, and the child's social worker.
It is not a matter of carers never becoming involved in close one to one relationships with a child, it is a vital part of the 'caring' task, however, carers must be aware of the dangers, which this type of work can bring and be clear where the boundaries in such relationships lie.
Consideration should be given to the need for each child to have an Advocate or Independent Visitor - see Advocacy and Independent Visitors Procedure.
Appropriate support must be provided to all children including those who are refugees or asylum seekers, and those who are disabled children and with communication difficulties.
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